Yes.. I have a facebook account
And yes.. I do post pictures, event and sometimes status on my facebook wall
I liked my friends status and pictures
I do love watching lots of funny and cute videos they shares on their wall
That makes me laugh, smile, sometimes sheds tears when the video or story makes my heart breaks
I enjoy reading about new parenting and marriage tips, islamic status, the prayer and doa, the ugly truth about the world and politics, general knowledge and etc
I am happy seeing happy moments of my family and friend.. Beautiful pictures of my hometown.. Owhh how i miss them so much ..sigh!
But most of the time.. I am an observer
There are also several things that i hate about facebook
I hate when people share accident pictures..dead body. Where we can see clearly how the body looks like..
People..please.. Have some respect!!
We dont even know how we will end up.
Do you like if people share your dead body to the public?
I hate when people tell not so good stories about other people. I hate words bully.
On top of that.. I hate when a wife or a husband posts sarcastis status about their spouse
I know..maybe you have problems in your marriage
Okey..maybe your spouse is cheating on you
Maybe he/she did not provide enough for your living
I know.. Sometimes you just need to let it out
But please...not in the facebook please..
do you really think by shout it out on your wall may solve your problem?
Do you really believe by being sarcastic on your facebook wall may gain respect from your spouse or other people?
What do you really get? Really..? What do you really get?
Being satisfied? Happy? Coz youve got to yell your feelings and thoughts so other people will know? Really?
Let me give you a suggestion.. Or two suggestions
Be a mature person.. Face the problems with your spouse face to face.. Not in the facebook wall
Yell..shout..cry..mad..whatever you want to say..sarcastically or directly.. Do it face to face.. No need to tell other unsignificant people about your marriage problem..
If you still cannot solve it..then you have families.. Marriage counselor.. And jabatan agama to solve it for you
Theres no need to humiliate your spouse even you hate her / him so much.. In public pulak tu hesh!!
Remember in the first place.. You chose her / him to become your wife / husband.
Isteri bercerita keaiban suami.. Tak takut dosa ke? Suami bercerita keaiban isteri? Bagaimana mungkin anda menjadi seorang ketua keluarga?
Tak malu ke bila dah malukan kat facebook pastu nanti berbaik balik. Tapi semua tahi hidung tahi telinga tahi keji dan jijik pasangan dah kita jaja-jaja. Nauzubillah.
And please. Pray to Allah asking for his forgiveness and kindness to help you help your marriage..not pray on the facebook wall.. Kamonlah..
Facebook.. I love it because it connects me with lots of other people
Family and friends
But thats it.. Dont use it as a place you can humiliate another human being
Me,
An observer
